Other then this issue going on, Hubby and I have barelly been able to talk all week, usually because we dont have a talking schedule written down anywhere so its a huge frustrating thing to wait online for an hour (thats my waiting limit) and find out it was his night to go to bed early or hang out with friends. I know I shouldnt complain, I am very aware that I have a huge luxury of being able to talk to my husband almost everyday. I know I need to get something written down for him and I. The only day I know for sure is that Sunday he calls his Mom and I go to church so I we just dont talk....and that would be my rant about that.
Another thing I have to rant about is that I am having a really hard time involving Hubby in my pregnancy. Its not at all that I dont try. I do try hard! But I cant tell if he is being distant because its too hard or if its because he really isnt that interested. I know there have got to be some Military Wives in my position, or have been there. I could really use some advice. I have the Flip Camera to include him in doctor appointments but when they do the heartbeat its hard for him to really hear it, its way more quite then I thought it would be.
I have an Ultrasound today! So you will all get to hear about that tomorrow on my 14 week Pregnancy Post! But for now....guess who's got a BUMP!
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I can't speak from experience, but I always hear about how mom's become mommy's when they are pregnant, and dad's don't become daddy's until they hold their child for the first time. Maybe that's playing a part here? I think when he feels your belly for the first time he'll become wayyyy more interested and emotionally attached!
dear beautiful,
I am so sorry about your family stuff. I truly am, i have been praying for you guys.
Also maybe its hard for him to feel involved, idk girl im sorry that you feel that way. I love yas girly, and i just text you so...:) hahah and im listening to n'sync on here...weird
I'll ask but you don't have to answer if you don't want. If you do you can text me... but what's going on with family stuff? I didn't what family you were talking about and wasn't sure if I was totally missing something. Scott and I are out of the loop on lots of stuff but like I said, you don't have to answer that question. So excited things are going good with your pregnancy though! Yay!
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